Habits Of A Successful Mom
Being a mom is a challenging job that requires a lot of love, patience, and dedication. As a mom, you may sometimes feel like you have a hundred things to do and not enough time to do them. However, the key to being a successful mom is not about doing more, but rather doing the right things, work smarter, not harder. Here are the top habits of a successful mom and how you can do them too!
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9 Secrets On How To Become A Successful & Efficient Mom
Are you a mom looking to become more successful and efficient in your parenting journey?
Successful moms know that it takes a lot of hard work to get to a place where things click and their home runs smoothly. But with these tried-and-true tips from experienced moms you will learn all of the secrets to becoming an effective and successful mom.
Habits of a Successful Mom Prioritize Self-Care
One of the most important habits of a successful mom is taking care of herself. You cannot pour from an empty cup, so it is essential to prioritize your own needs and well-being.
Self-care can mean different things for different people. It could be as simple as taking a break to read a book or going for a walk, or it could be something more significant like pursuing a hobby or getting a massage. Whatever it is, make sure you take the time to do it regularly.
It’s making yourself a priority! Self-Care could be pursuing a passion, having an outlet. It’s making sure you don’t lose yourself in motherhood, but daily strive to knowing oneself.
Related: 7 Important Self Care Items for Busy Moms – Do these daily!
Successful moms live a fulfilled life and purse the things they love and passions they have. Make sure you are being purposeful in carving out time to have goals and pursue things you love outside of being a mom.
Do you have something you want to do outside of motherhood but haven’t pursued it yet?
Related: Do you hate being a mom or just want more?
Habits of a Successful Mom Focus On What Matters
As a mom, it is easy to get caught up in the day-to-day tasks of running a household. However, a successful mom knows how to prioritize what matters most.
This means getting clear on what you want. What kind of mom do you want to be? Prioritizing quality time with your family, engaging in meaningful conversations, and building strong relationships.
It also means getting good at saying “NO”. You can’t do it all and you need to make sure the things you say “yes” to align with your priorities.
Once you know what matters to YOU, you eliminate the mom guilt that so often entangles so many moms.
‘I remind myself every day that the version of motherhood in my head-the mom guilt, the imperfection, the worry-isn’t the same version of motherhood that my kids see-a mom who loves them fully and forever, no matter what.’ Housewife Plus in smartmamasmartkids
Mom guilt will affect you less if you have your priorities defined and you know what matters to you as a mom.
Successful Moms Embrace Imperfection
No mom is perfect, and it is crucial to embrace your imperfections. Successful moms know that mistakes happen, and they are not afraid to admit when they are wrong. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on being present in the moment and showing love and support to your family.
Be willing to say “I’m sorry” to your kids. Showing the vulnerability and that you aren’t perfect is a great quality for your kids to see.
When you are not striving for perfection you allow yourself to be more flexible. Focusing on the big picture, choosing your battles, and knowing not every single thing needs to be the hill we die on with our kids.
Effective Moms Know That Their Kids Actions Aren’t A Reflection Of You
It can be hard to not feel when your kids make mistakes, it’s a reflection of you or your parenting. You feel the judgements from other parents, the embarrassment sometimes, and it can be hard to not feel that it’s about you.
Don’t attach your worth as a mother to your child’s poor choices.
You are teaching your kids to be honest, kind, compassionate, independent, respectful, have self-control, but sometimes kids will be kids and their actions will not reflect what we are striving to teach them.
It is not about you in this moment and successful moms have the ability to show un-attachment.
Efficient Moms Make SMART Goals And Are Organized
Being a mom is busy, wearing multiple hats, especially if you are a working mom. Having a good work-life balance is imperative in being a successful mom.
We all want to make money but also be present parents who spend quality time with out kids. It’s possible, but you have to be intentional and have a thought out organized plan.
You need to organize your time. Have tools that work for you. Set SMART Goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-specific) to stay focus and clear on your goals.
Use time blocking skills to get the most out of your limited time. Write down & prioritize your goals and make lists to take action on achieving your goals. Use a planner. Whether it’s a physical planner or use your phone as a tool to keep your day and week organized and on task.
Related: Moms Need To Make Lists And Here’s The Most Efficient Way!
A Productive Moms Have Established Routines
Having a routine can help you stay organized and manage your time more efficiently. Create a schedule and routines for your daily tasks, including meal prep, house cleaning, and family time. Stick to this routine as much as possible but also be flexible when unexpected events occur.
Related: 13 Important Daily Routines for Moms
Successful moms wake up early and have productive mornings. Are you taking advantage of the uninterrupted time in the couple of hours before your kids wake up and the chaos ensues?
Productive and successful moms do.
Moms who wake up early get a jump start on the most difficult tasks and get that task out of the way before the day becomes too busy.
Getting the most important task out of the way early, allows you to be more present mom with your family without worrying or stressing over uncompleted tasks.
Related: 9 Must do’s in a morning routine for busy mom’s
A Successful Mom Delegates
Involve your children in the housework, food and meal prep, cleaning, and teach them to be a team player in the home.
Beyond teaching your children to be kind, successful moms teach their children to do things by themselves and on their own.
You are daily working yourself out of a job by raising your children to be independent and helpful within the home.
Intentional Moms Practice Gratitude & Have A Growth Mindset
Practicing gratitude is a habit that can make a significant difference in your life as a mom. Take the time each day to reflect on the things you are thankful for, whether it be your family, your home, or the simple pleasures in life.
By doing so, you will create a positive mindset that can help you approach the challenges of motherhood with a more optimistic attitude.
A positive mindset is imperative in order to shift towards having a growth mindset.
In an interview on Stanford Report professor Carol Dweck, Ph.D explains how a growth mindset is perferred.
With a growth mindset, you know that you can change over time, and therefore you are more open to reflect, learn and grow from challenges. Because failure is less threatening, you are more willing to embrace life’s challenges, take feedback as a learning opportunity and continue to learn and grow throughout life.
https://news.stanford.edu/report/2021/09/15/mindsets-clearing-lens-life/
Don’t give up on yourself or settle for less of who you are capable of being. Live a life worth living and challenge yourself to keep growing.
Be A Resourceful Mom
Have you ever met a mom who doesn’t give up and no matter what and will find a way, a solution to any problem? That is a habit of a successful mom. Resilient, consistent, persistent and always finds a way.
A resourceful mom has the ability to find a solution (creative, efficient) to any problem or challenge.
If you feel you are limited by your resources, look into expanding them. Increase your income by finding a side hustle or part time job. Maybe you can increase your resources by taking an online course or learning a new skill, or listening to an educating podcast.
Final Thoughts for Habits of A Successful Mom
Becoming a successful mom is not about being perfect or doing everything right. It is about adopting the right habits and mindset that will help you thrive in your role as a mom.
Prioritizing self-care, focusing on what matters, embracing imperfection, creating a routine, and practicing gratitude are all habits that successful moms have in common. By incorporating these habits into your daily life, you can become a more successful mom and enjoy the journey of motherhood to the fullest. Remember, you got this!
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